Arab societies used to hold the wife responsible for achieving psychological stability for her family, ignoring the role of the husband in bearing this great responsibility with the wife.

And you can obtain a personal consultation from our accredited experts in complete confidentiality, either by messages or a video call, and we remind you that Esaal’s consultations are available to 6 Arab countries, and multiple payment options are available to suit everyone.

The main causes of psychological instability between spouses

Socialization in broken families

The socialization of children and adolescents in broken families greatly affects their later married life, due to their lack of a good role model in their lives, and their ignorance of how to deal properly between spouses, but these negative repercussions can be eliminated when seeking help from experts and psychiatrists specializing in family problems. And you can now benefit from the marital and relationship counseling service, which is provided by the Ask website, at very competitive prices, and book a session online in complete secrecy. To book the session, click here.

Couples not mature enough

Early marriage and the lack of emotional, psychological and intellectual maturity of the spouses is one of the reasons for the instability of the family, as it lacks the ability to manage family matters, face crises, assume responsibility and plan for the future.

To address this problem before it escalates and destroys the family, the couple can book an online consultation on the Ask website, and benefit from the opinions of therapists specializing in the self-development of couples, to book the service click here.

Incompatibility between spouses

Marriage in all religions is based on friendliness, compassion and understanding between the two parties, and with the distance from religion and neglect of moral values, and the pursuit of the application of wrong societal customs, we find many families marry their daughters to any well-off man, just to protect them from spinsterhood, without caring about the personality of the groom or His way of thinking, or compatibility between him and the bride.

On the other hand, we find many men stipulating marriage to beautiful girls, regardless of their personalities and level of thinking. Hence, family courts are filled with khula and divorce cases, and children are scattered.

The problem of incompatibility between spouses can be addressed, and the family is protected from disintegration by consulting the best specialists in marital relations on the Ask website, either by chatting or through a video session, and this service is available at very competitive prices for 6 Arab countries, to request the service click here.

Relatives' intervention

Minor disagreements often occur between spouses, but the interventions of family, relatives and friends these differences, and their attempt to provide advice through their experiences and the experiences of those around them, increase these differences and charge the spouses to each other, and thus the psychological health of the spouses is affected, problems abound and divorce may occur.

Therefore, at such times, the spouses should turn to a marital relations expert, to find out the best solutions to the problem without causing embarrassment to one of the parties at the present or the future. This service is provided by the Ask website at prices ranging from 80 pounds to 250 pounds.

Despite all these causes of psychological instability between spouses, there are many ways to treat all these causes and deal with them wisely, to enhance stability between spouses and avoid family disintegration, including:

• Promote respect and continuous communication between spouses.

• Couples accept each other's differences, focusing on and nurturing their points of agreement.

• Distribute family tasks and responsibilities to the spouses, and not burden one party over the other.

• Getting rid of wrong societal concepts about marriage, and educating husbands and those who are about to marry on the best ways to achieve psychological and emotional stability for the family.

• Consultation with a specialist in the Ask site team, whether through messages or secret sessions.

• Protecting the family from the interference of family and friends. Request marital and family counseling on the Ask website and communicate with a group of online counselors and therapists in complete confidentiality and at symbolic prices.